jarridwilson:

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burningforalltosee:

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Lately, I’m having an overwhelming urge to get married. I have the guy, half the degree, and the dedication. Bleh. I just want to be 25….

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Honestly, there is nothing that breaks my heart more than to see my friends hurt emotionally. It seems as if it’s a daily thing for girls to be upset about a guy, the way they look, what their “enemy” said about them, the fact that their hook up won’t text them back, etc. So I’m sitting here and asking myself: Why? Why are they letting people do this to them? And the only answer I found was: insecurity.

The women that walk around the hallways of our high schools, churches, and grocery stores, are not confident enough in themselves. Half dress trashy so that they get attention from guys, half give their selves up to random hook ups trying to feel loved, half gossip like crazy to put others down so that they can feel better, half drink to get out of the real world if only for a minute, half will spend hours talking about how they wish they looked better, half keep quiet and never voice their opinion because they’re too afraid to stand up. Yes, I know there are only two halves in a whole, but I used half repeatedly because it does feel as if 2000% of girls are a victim to these things at some point. Maybe it’s just my heart to look for these types of things, and if it is, I may as well spill the rest…

Stop— letting break ups get the best of you, stop letting the way another girl looked at you plague your mind for a day, stop letting jealousy overrun you, stop selling yourself for less than you really are, stop worrying about what you look like, stop talking behind each other’s back, stop dressing for attention, stop hating people outside your group of friends, stop taking your true value for granted.

Start— humbly owning the hallways, start saying “You know what I don’t care what these people think,” start talking highly of those girls who are trying to steal your ex or gossiping about you, start acting like you love everyone in that hallway unconditionally, start letting things roll of your back, start walking with your head up high, doing the right thing, and not caring what anyone thinks… SINCERELY.

The truth is:

If we do this, we’ll start noticing the guys who are into serious relationships instead of the ones that want to use us. If we do this, we automatically turn into modest, sweet, selfless, and CONFIDENT women. Ask any guy who they want to spend the rest of their lives with. The girl who whines about the clothes she wants and and gossips 24/7? Or the one who held true to her character, is stable, strong, loving, and honest. YES… of course.

The truth is:

You need to do this because you deserve it. You deserve more than a temporary pleasure. You deserve to put your hard honest work into your character, and at the end of the road meet this amazing guy that loves everything about you. You deserve for your bodies, thoughts, and words to be cherished and respected . No matter what stage of life, or stage of a relationship you’re in. That’s what you were made for.

The truth is:

Yes, there is always going to be that one person who goes against the flow and tries to pull you down, but stand up! Nicely. Turn your head. Close your mouth. Smile. Go on with your life. And don’t start texting your friend about what just happened. Who do you think gets the most attention now? YOU. Simply because you’re brave enough to turn away, and you do so with kindness.

The truth is:

Yes, I’ve been there and done that. Yes, I sound crazy about all of this. But most of all… YES… I CARE about YOU. I care to see that women aren’t vicious towards each other. I care to see that we can have full trust in each other, and rely on loyal friends for life. I care that we aren’t letting guys get in the way of our relationships with each other. I care that the hallways aren’t an intimidating place to walk. I care that everyone gets the kindness they need. Whether they deserve it or not.

The truth is:

There is always a blessing waiting for you at the end of hard work. Whether it be the man of your dreams, unbeatable friends, or pride and self-confidence in who you are.

I’m trying with 100% of my heart to be this girl myself.

And I would loveee it if some of yall choose to be this person with me.

To support, hold accountable, and be waiting with a high five when you see someone do the right thing. (2 Corinthians 6:17)